A closer look at respite care
Care for the caregiver
Millions of Americans care for a relative without pay, often alongside a job and children. Caregiving can be deeply meaningful, but it is also tiring, and burnout helps no one. Respite care means someone else takes over for a while, so you can sleep, see a doctor, go to work, travel or simply have an afternoon to yourself.
How respite care works
- A few hours a week: a regular break you can plan around.
- Occasional days: cover for a wedding, a business trip or a hospital visit of your own.
- Longer stays: overnight or live-in help while you are away.
Make the handover easy
Before the first visit, prepare a one-page guide: daily routine, meals, medication reminders and times, mobility needs, things that comfort or upset your loved one, and emergency contacts. Introduce the caregiver while you are still at home for the first session if you can.
Paying for respite
Some state programs, the National Family Caregiver Support Program through your local Area Agency on Aging, and some VA programs offer respite support. Call the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116 to find services near you.
And remember: needing a break is not a failure. It is part of caring well over the long run.